101 questions ask while dating
How do you tell the difference between the jitters and cold feet?
“One sign is that you are really picking your fiancé apart and are hypercritical of him or her all the time,” says Moir-Smith.
The problem is, you still can’t shake a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach and it’s not the stuffed mushroom hors d'oeuvres you spent the afternoon sampling, it’s the jitters.
and his bride-to-be have a wedding to plan, with hundreds of decisions that need to be made leading up to the big day.
More important than the floral centerpieces and the DJ’s playlist, however, they also have big decisions to make about the marriage: How many kids will they have? How will they come to terms on the differences in their religious beliefs?
“The personal ads where they say, ‘I like to take long walks on the beach,’ those things are minor,” says Louanne Cole Weston, Ph D, a marriage and family therapist.
“It’s life philosophies that matter in a marriage.” What’s on the checklist of life a couple should talk through before the wedding bells start to toll?
But if they sideline these questions and refuse to answer them, run away!