Dating a player
I would like to thank Simon for the inspiration to write this post and I dedicate it to you, you are truly a player at heart.Players are people that use online dating sites to arrange a string of casual encounters, they are simply sexual predators looking for their latest power trip and online dating sites offer a wide range and number of potential victims.After a few bad experiences and a lot of heartache I now enjoy playing ‘spot the players’ on dating websites, so it’s a strange hobby but after all some people like train spotting don’t they?!Do not confuse a player with people who simply enjoy casual sex, players are called players for a reason, it’s all a game to them.Just to give you an idea of how sick and twisted these people can be, a few years ago when I first joined a dating site I immediately received a message from a lady which said “just to warn you, as you are definately his type, this guy “username” is a player on this site.After he had finished with me recently he actually sent a critique with an overall score out of 10 and a list of ladies on the same site, along with their scores, to make comparisons with.
No, real players are skilled at their game, they are experienced hunters looking for their next victim.As awful as it is to admit this I just wanted to warn you”.She and I are still friends to this day and sure enough after a few weeks on the site I got my first message from him telling me he was just about to give up on the site when he spotted my profile.However they will not tell you they are no longer interested, so you will get messages like: Their reasons for the cool down are always ‘honourable’ and designed to keep you poised to come running when they next click their fingers.It is simply a power trip for them and nothing more, they have invested time and energy into you and are not going to give you up that easily.
Every online dating site will have it’s share of players and if you want to find a genuine relationship then learn to spot the players on the dating sites you join.