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"One of the themes of my book," says Klinenberg, "is that today life stages are less tightly linked to age.
Or so Carrie Bradshaw would have you believe; and she is mostly right.But for me, and my three best friends, the key word is “want” rather than need.We all have fulfilling careers, lots of good friends and interesting lives.In fact, several of the divorced people Klinenberg has interviewed didn't want to remarry because they dreaded an ensuing narrowing of their social world, he said: "One, a single mother of two grown children whom she raised on her own, even turned down a proposal because she was so attached to the lifestyle she had built." As Laura L.Carstensen, a psychology professor quoted by Williams, explained, a big life event like turning 30 causes people to take stock and "concentrate on the here and now." She said, “You tend to focus on what is most emotionally important to you, so you’re not interested in going to that cocktail party, you’re interested in spending time with your kids.” Perhaps yes, but adults have a wide array of what's important to them that goes beyond kids, particularly if they don't have them, or if those children are grown.
Stage of life is something else, something far more important in terms of friendships and your lifestyle in general.